Forgivness: 1) a person has to be sorry and tell you so, to be forgiven. 2) When people we trusted and belived in, turn on us and turn others aginst us, and never apologize, they are not intrested in being forgiven, they just want to hurt you; and they do. 3) the only thing you can do is ignor it, but you know it still hurts. God says ask to be forgiven for even one thing, and he will forgive you for all things, even the things you didn’t know were hurtful to him, but you must repent (stop the hurtful behavior). So u can’t forgive someone who isn’t asking to be forgiven or truly sorry for hurting you. You can only ignor them and hope they will go away.